Nia the Giraffe Needs Space

Body Autonomy + Consent + Social Skills

10 Tips for Parents to Reinforce Personal Space Awareness:

1. Practice the Phrase “Can I?”: Role-play everyday situations where your child can say, “Can I hug you?” or “Can I play like this?”
2. Make a “Space Bubble” Game: Use arms or hula hoops to show how everyone has their own invisible bubble.
3. Label the Feeling: When someone steps too close, say, “That made me feel crowded.” Model gentle language.
4. Use Nia’s Song During Playdates: Before group play, sing or reference the chorus as a fun boundary reminder.
5. Normalize Saying No: Let your child know it’s okay to say “No, thank you” to hugs or
   touches—even with family.
6. Give Praise for Asking First: Celebrate moments like “You asked before hugging! That was so kind and respectful.”
7. Model It Yourself: Before tickling or hugging your child, say “Can I give you a hug?” to lead by example.
8. Draw Consent Creatures: Let your child illustrate animals from the song—like the porcupine—and how they give space.
9. Create a Social Cue Chart: Use visuals to show thumbs up, wait, or not now—especially for neurodiverse kids.
10. Talk About Feelings After Boops Go Wrong: If play gets too rough, use it as a
    moment to reflect and reframe with kindness.