HAPPY HALLOWEEN!

Happy Halloween Grab & Go Jar It’s Okay to Feel Scared — Brave Can Be Scared Too This Halloween Grab & Go Jar combines playdough, small Halloween-themed sensory toys, and a therapeutic song designed to help children understand and cope with fear in a playful, age-appropriate way. Halloween can be exciting, but costumes, masks, decorations, shadows, and unexpected sounds can also feel scary to young children. The goal of this jar is not to tell children, “Don’t be scared.” Instead, it teaches: It is okay to feel scared. We can stop, breathe, look again, check what is real or pretend, and take one brave step at a time. While listening to the song, let your child squeeze, roll, flatten, and shape the playdough while exploring the small Halloween toys included in the top of the jar. Keeping their hands busy can help children slow down, regulate their bodies, and talk more naturally about their feelings. Goal of This Jar The Happy Halloween Jar helps children practice: - Recognizing fear - Understanding that fear is a normal emotion - Identifying what feels scary - Separating real danger from pretend Halloween scares - Using breathing to calm their body - Challenging scary thoughts - Asking for help when needed - Approaching fears gradually - Building confidence - Understanding that bravery does not mean never being scared Try This While You Play Place one Halloween toy in the playdough and ask: “What does this make you think about?” If your child says it is scary, try: “What makes it feel scary?” Then investigate together: “Is it real or pretend?” “Is it a toy, costume, or decoration?” “What could we do if we started feeling scared?” Use the playdough to create a safe place for the toy, hide it, uncover it, or turn something spooky into something silly. For example: Give the spider a playdough hat. Make the ghost a tiny bed. Give the monster a funny smile. Let creativity change the way the child experiences the scary object.

Scan, listen, play, and practice being brave — one little step at a time.

10 Therapeutic Tips for Parents

1. Validate the Feeling

Instead of:

“Don’t be scared.”

Try: “That feels scary to you. Let’s look at it together.”

Fear becomes easier to manage when children feel understood.

2. Practice “Real or Pretend?”

Use the small toys from the jar.

Ask: “Is this a real spider or a pretend spider?”

“Is this a real ghost or a Halloween toy?”

Then connect this idea to costumes and decorations they may see outside.

3. Use the Playdough to Regulate

When your child feels nervous, encourage them to:

  • Squeeze it.
  • Roll it.
  • Push it.
  • Flatten it.
  • Pull it apart.

Slow sensory movement can give the child something concrete to focus on while their body settles.

4. Practice a Halloween Breath

Say:“Smell the pumpkin.”

Slow breath in.

Then:“Blow out the candle.”

Long breath out.

Repeat three times.

5. Make Scary Things Silly

Fear and humor can have difficulty occupying the same space.

Ask:

  • “What if this ghost loved cupcakes?”
  • “What if this spider wore bunny slippers?”
  • “What if the monster was afraid of bubbles?”

Let your child create the silly details with playdough.

6. Take Small Brave Steps

Bravery does not have to mean touching or approaching something immediately.

A child can:

  • Look from far away.
  • Talk about it.
  • Stand a little closer.

Watch someone else interact with it.

Approach when ready.

7. Give Your Child Helpful Words

Practice:

  • “I’m scared.”
  • “I need help.”
  • “Can you come with me?”
  • “I want to stay back.”
  • “That is too loud.”
  • “I need a minute.”

These are coping skills too.

8. Check the Scary Thought

If your child says:

“That monster is going to get me!”

Try: “That is what your brain is telling you. Let’s check what is really happening.”

Then look for clues together. 

  • Is it moving?
  • Is it a decoration?
  • Is someone wearing a costume?
  • What do we actually know?

9. Prepare for Trick-or-Treating

Before Halloween, use the toys to talk about what they might see:

  • Ghosts.
  • Witches.
  • Skeletons.
  • Spiders.
  • Pumpkins.
  • Monsters.
  • Dinosaurs.
  • Superheroes.

Explain that costumes can make people look very different, but there is still a person underneath.

10. Celebrate the Brave Moment

Instead of:“See? There was nothing to be scared of.”

Try: “You felt scared and you still looked again.”

  • “You used your breathing.”
  • “You told me what you needed.”
  • “You took a brave little step.”

That is the skill you want to reinforce.

Parent Reminder

The goal is not to eliminate fear.

The goal is to help children learn:

I can feel scared and still cope with the feeling.

Through sensory play, music, imagination, and simple CBT-inspired strategies, children can gradually learn to recognize fear without immediately being controlled by it.

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